Read this article about 'nice guys who are actually not' sometime before and feel that it's quite true?
There are some people who say it's a sexist post, but it's true to me, haha.
Nice guys do not feel self-entitled to something when they do something nice.
They do not have self entitled thoughts like 'I'm nice so I did xx and xx for you, you should be thankful'.
Those are thoughts of jerks, lol.
There were other points but I forgot them, haha.
Was talking with a friend about the topic of love, and he said something like 'think first come first serve meh'. LOL.
First come first serve sounds like a buffet to me, HAHAHA.
But yup, I think self-entitlement is a very dangerous thought to have. It doesn't exist just on aspects of love, but in social day-to-day aspects too.